No maternity pay or Short Term Disability (live in US)?
I am 16 weeks pregnant and just found out that my employer offers no pay during maternity leave, and that I’m not eligible for Short Term Disability, I believe because this is a “pre-existing condition,” and also it takes a while to kick in.
Does anyone have advice on what can be done so my partner (soon to be husband) and I can pay bills, and still allow for my maternity leave? It’s really important to me to be able to breastfeed my baby, at least for a while, before I have to start pumping during the day.
We’re in our 30’s, have average incomes – not much left over, but not broke. We’re responsible, but with the cost of living, and things like student loans, medical bills, etc. (we don’t buy anything “fun” or spend frivolously), we need his income and at least some of mine to make ends meet.
So, I don’t know if getting *nothing* on my end is feasible during the time I take off.
Thanks so much for any advice you can provide.
Most US companies do not offer “maternity pay.” It is expected that you will use your vacation and sick (or PTO) days. Read the article in the link below. It’s got some good info on short-term disability. If you company has it, make sure you know for sure if you do or do not qualify. If you have just started your job, you may not have much time off to use, though. Depending on the type of work you do, maybe you could try to take off the 12 weeks (which are protected by the FMLA) but then come back earlier if you need to for financial reasons. You’ve still got some time to before your baby is due to scrimp and save some money as well as time to figure things out. A lot of women don’t take the full 12 week maternity leave, so don’t feel bad if you don’t either. And know that breastfeeding is a very adaptable thing – as long as you get things going well the first week or two. You don’t have to breastfeed exclusively, either. You could breastfeed at night and formula feed during the day if pumping gets to be too much for you. I would recommend getting to know your local La Leche League leader – it’s free and they are a great resource. And if you don’t like her – find someone else. The hospital should have a lactation consultant on staff that will help you as well. Their services are free, too (at least while you are at the hospital). Best of luck to you and your family!
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